Focus on the Ride or on the Gate?

Let me begin by saying I’m fine.

A recent event coupled with a history of heart attack precipitated my cardiologist to have a closer look at the internal mechanics. Laying on a bed with a 12-lead monitor attached I was ready for the treadmill after an initial ultrasound examination of valves, arteries, and a check for any evidence of a familial aortic aneurysm.

Lying there I wished I had ridden to the appointment. An inquiry the night before with ChatGPT had it stress the stupidity of riding after the test. It listed the possible side effects which could affect my ability to ride safely. It agreed with my wife.

Each of us has an expiration date. As I get older I am more aware of that fact. Many don’t like to think about the topic but I have found an open and honest approach to the realities of life allow me to experience everything more fully. Thinking about aging and the inevitable Gate at the end of the road is a lovely riding metaphor for the predicament that every one of us is in even though we may often be blissfully unaware of the road we’re on. Or worse, in good old denial.

I focus on the ride. And as a result all the good and bad along the way is lighter and easier to accept, deal with, or just let go.

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